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## Why do women strive to be beautiful?
Maybe the word “beautiful” always goes hand in hand with women. That’s why people don’t just randomly call women “the beautiful ones.” Sometimes, “beauty” goes far beyond its scope. “Beauty” becomes an obsession for many ladies. Many women believe that to be beautiful they must buy many luxurious, expensive clothes. To be beautiful, they must use one lipstick after another, different shades of powder.

To be beautiful, they visit many places for cosmetic surgery. Fix their eyes a little because they saw their friend has big, round eyes which are really beautiful. Adjust their nose because they feel theirs is lower than a coworker’s. But in truth they are very afraid of pain, always scared of cosmetic surgery. Yet they end up saying, “Well, whatever—just to be beautiful.”

Where is happiness?
Some say that beautiful women have very interesting, very lovely lives. That may be true. But that doesn’t mean the lives of all other girls are average. Of course everyone wishes to have a radiant beauty, a pleasant face, a perfect figure. Being beautiful is a kind of luck for a person. But one thing is certain: luck is not what determines happiness.

For beautiful women, happiness is something they make themselves, not something that nature grants. A beautiful woman is someone who knows how to be kind to herself. Not forcing or binding beauty. Not abandoning her own interests in order to chase what the majority considers “beautiful.” A truly beautiful woman is someone who is truly comfortable.

Beautiful women are those who always are themselves
People often praise a woman for having voluminous, silky hair. In old times people would say that a woman’s long, black hair was graceful and gentle. However, that doesn’t mean one must have long hair to be a beautiful woman.

There are girls who dislike the mess of hair every morning after waking. They don’t like seeing loose strands all over the floor. They also don’t like elaborate hair clips and colorful hair ties. That’s fine—even though those things are typical of many girls. But if they don’t like them, they can refuse their presence in daily life. Because having long hair may be hot in summer. Or simply because long hair doesn’t make them look as pretty as short hair does. As long as each girl can be beautiful in the way she wants. In a way that makes her comfortable, not constrained. Then she is already more than half way beautiful.

Not beautiful – not smart – not bothered by the world
Have you ever heard this: “A happy woman is not beautiful, not smart, not bothered by the world”? Don’t misunderstand that saying. A woman should certainly be beautiful, but beautiful in the way she wants, not the way others want. A woman must be intelligent. Intelligent enough to see what is right and wrong, to make her life better—not to compete or to prove how capable she is. A woman should not be disturbed by the world—not placing weight on the words of those who do not matter. Ignoring negativity. Not intervening in things that don’t belong to her.

For a beautiful woman, they always know what’s enough. Always knowing that no one is absolutely perfect. A beautiful woman is one who dedicates herself wholeheartedly in everything. Just try to live well every day and you will get results that don’t disappoint you. When one never stops pursuing the things one wishes for, someday success will come. So a beautiful woman is one who always strives to self‑improve, instead of spending much time worrying about how far others have come.

“Weak gender” but not dependent on the “strong gender”
If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you?

Being spoilt, being a bit emotional is a privilege of women. Maybe everyone likes when the man next to them surprises them with a gift on their anniversary. Or even with no particular occasion. Walking in the street, a woman might beg her partner for some snacks. Sometimes a cone of ice cream, sometimes a bubble tea. Also, a woman feels warm when her man sweetly says: “Come home, I’ll take care of you.” Perhaps because of all these things, a woman feels cherished and protected. But of course, it doesn’t mean we can’t do those things without a man.

A truly beautiful woman is one who doesn’t depend on anyone else. She spends money she earned by herself. Not overly devoted to any one person. She will know how to care for herself rather than sacrificing for someone else.

Not lamenting, not blaming fate
Beautiful women always smile at what they have. And they quietly change themselves to grow better. Beautiful women understand which matters to confide in whom. Complaints addressed to the wrong person may turn into jokes among people. They are people who are content with any circumstance, do not complain, do not blame. They think that in life things are arranged, there are joys and sorrows, but nothing can be changed by complaining.

Beautifying oneself not for others, but for oneself
Because I have heard many girls who have gotten married. When they want to “spruce up” themselves a little, they have to ask their husbands for permission. Some girls with boyfriends want to change their style a bit. They don’t know whether their boyfriends will like it. Sometimes they buy a pretty dress they’ve longed for, but they worry whether their man will want them to wear that style. It’s tiring.

It’s true that a married woman should tell her husband about her plans. But that should only be an act of informing, sharing and asking for his opinion. Don’t let it become a constraint forcing oneself to slavishly obey. In the end they may end up disadvantaged.

A beautiful woman always remembers: it was because she was herself that he loved her in the first place. Don’t lose yourself just to follow someone else’s preferences. Eventually you lose yourself. The girl he loved at first is nowhere to be found. The strength, resilience, and innocence are nowhere to be found. The personality, the free-spiritedness, the wind of freedom to fly around happily is missing. Now all that remains is a girl forever trailing behind, making him irritated. Was it you who pushed the love he once had away?